
We live in what author Deborah Tannen refers to as an "Argument Culture." Rather than exchanging meaningful dialogue, too often we find ourselves in a war of words with those who hold different views. Discourse is discarded in favor of "winning" arguments, which more often than not devolves into "shock value" one-liners primarily intended to belittle and/or discredit one's ideological adversaries. We see this dynamic played out in political campaigns, television programs, and of course within the blogosphere. Rather than conceding the latter to the dominant Argument Culture, however, I propose that we move toward the creation of a "counterculture" within this cyber-community of Star Wars fans. Rather than falling into the trap of emulating pundits and talking heads, let's engage our brains and pursue real and meaningful dialogue.
I have a few suggestions that might help us move in that direction.
1.) Dialogue isn't about impressing others. If you have something to contribute to an ongoing conversation, then by all means jump in. However, don't submit a comment if you're simply seeking to impress others with your superior wit and vast knowledge. In other words, don't hijack conversations for the sole purpose of seeing your name appear on the page.
2.) Dialogue isn't about provoking others. Just because you disagree with someone's point of view doesn't mean that you have the right to confront them about it whenever you wish. There are proper times and places to engage in an actual debate, but you need to remember that you are a guest when commenting on other people's blogs. As a guest you need to show proper respect for your host. You can be civil without compromising your beliefs.
3.) Dialogue isn't about getting the first and last word. We need to think before we post our thoughts. If you're routinely "misunderstood" by other readers, perhaps you need to spend more time considering your thoughts and words before you share them with the rest of us. Maybe you should do more reading than replying for a while. Trust me, your reputation will be the better for it.
I'm certain that others have some thoughts on these matters. Please feel free to share them in the comments section if you wish.
Note: I'm not interested in reading defense statements from those who've been at the center of recent blogging controversies, though I welcome constructive comments from any source. Neither do I wish to engage in philosophical discussions regarding "Freedom of Speech." I'd simply like to hear from the
vox populi regarding what could be done on an individual level to enhance the interaction of fans on StarWars.com. I'd also like to take this opportunity to thank the mods for all of their hard work. Hoo-Yah to all of you guys and gals in the Blue Mod Group! Thanks for putting up with the poodoo we throw your way.