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 A straight line can be drawn between the characters of Star Wars and those in George Lucas' previous film, American Graffiti. Luke Skywalker has his roots in Curt, played by Richard Dreyfuss, the young man who doesn't want to leave home... until he receives encouragement from a mentor. (And the mentor, who'll remain nameless in case you haven't seen Graffiti, bears an interesting resemblance to Obi-Wan.) Han Solo is clearly modeled on John Milner (Paul Le Mat), constantly boasting about the speed of his hot-rod, while insecure Terry (Charles Martin Smith) forms the basis for bumbling and worrisome C-3PO. There's even an argument that Princess Leia follows the same path as Steve (Ron Howard), the student leader whose greatest adventure is to fall in love.
Truth is, most other Star Wars characters, both sequel and prequel, would also fit within the high school setting. The Jedi are clearly the jocks -- talented, popular, always committed to playing by the rules and looking out for the team. The bounty hunters are those brilliant kids who think school is beneath them, but they're so darn cool that they still get all the chicks. Jar Jar's the awkward adolescent who always shows up late and gets beaten up for his lunch money. And Padme's the overachieving class president who gets knocked up by the quarterback, and figures nobody will notice if her sweaters are baggy enough.
The Sith? Unfortunately, we know them, too: misfit kids who stay in the shadows, seething with unseen anger... planning, plotting, and preparing for revenge.
A few weeks ago, while preparing an obit for Charlton Heston, I revisited Michael Moore's Bowling for Columbine. It's an unfair portrait of Mr. Heston, who was almost certainly suffering from Alzheimer's at the time of his interview. Still, the movie raises some good points, mostly about the media and its connection to violence, while Mr. Moore smartly avoids tackling the central question: what caused the Columbine massacre? Why did two friends wake up one morning and commit mass murder? The film details our national search for answers in the aftermath of tragedy. To this day, we're still searching.
But after recent school shootings -- two separate attacks within one year -- the explanations came fast and furious. The quick consensus was that a deadly cocktail of isolation, martyrdom, and mental illness caused these men to lash out. Nobody's making a movie trying to understand what happened. Nobody's asking any questions. So what changed?
Last week was the ninth anniversary of the Columbine massacre. Perhaps coincidentally, the attack occurred on April 20th, Hitler's birthday. In the nine years since, we haven't become numb to violence. We're no more sophisticated in our diagnoses than we were in 1999. The difference between now and then, perhaps, is that these last two massacres were each carried out by a single person. Fairly or not, the perpetrator assumed the status of the Lone Gunman, the villainous archetype of a guy who just plain snapped. Columbine isn't as easy to dismiss. We're still grappling with it because the shooters weren't isolated. They didn't act alone. There were two of them. Always two.
After viewing the surveillance footage of the Columbine killers, I couldn't shake the image of Anakin Skywalker marching up the Jedi Temple steps. His look of determination... the merciless slaughter of children... all within a house of learning. The scene became less tragic and far more chilling, not just because it's suddenly relatable, but because Star Wars has a way of painting things in stark black and white. George Lucas conceived the Force, in his words, "based on the premise that there is a God and there is good and evil." So two individuals, working together towards a premeditated attack -- in Star Wars terms, they're the Sith. They no longer need to be explained. They represent evil. It's tempting to say that they simply are evil.
But... high school students?
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hansgirl3 Invoking the Squee
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 7:26 AM
Goodness, Stooge, what an incredibly in-depth blog.
Tragic events like Columbine should never be forgotten, but they should certainly be studied and picked apart to find out what events caused it and to attempt to prevent that type of thing from happening again.
That said, it's not possible, IMO, to stop all seemingly senseless acts of violence. Some people simply are violent or mean or just plain bad.
Cont...
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hansgirl3 Invoking the Squee
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 7:26 AM
I know a child, who is now 13, who is one of those just plain "bad" kids. She grew up in the same environment with her sister, but her sister is sweet and caring and she is dark and troubled, has been doing "mean" things since she was very small and never has remorse! When confronted with the things she has done, she cries, but it's only because she got caught, not because she truly feels sorry. I worry about what she'll do in the future.
Love the comparison of SW to American Graffiti! Excellent!
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Yodafett117
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 8:45 AM
Woah.... You made me think about this really hard... especially being a teen myself.
Why the sudden departure from tradition? I'm not saying anything against it, I'm with you, it's just that I think I underwent optic overload when I saw the amount of text on this entry instead of the usual small, reasonal amount.
Still, a mind-opening blog entry. Now I need to go watch American Graffiti sometime.
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nob01 Oil Bath Bubbles
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 9:14 AM
Perhaps coincidentally, the attack occurred on April 20th, Hitler's birthday.
And mine - go figure.
Good entry, Stooge. As you are well aware, school violence (and the nurturing of 'violence as cool' by MTV et al) is forefront in my mind these days.
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gencrs Technical Manuals from The GFFA
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 9:41 AM
WOW!! Stooge you should write more blogs like this!!
I was a youth leader at church when Columbine happened and I was thinking what I would do if that situation happened to one of the schools that I worked with. It's a sobering thought.
I've never been a fan on Moore's movies, but I need to see Bowling for Columbine sometime.
Excellent blog.
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Master Ki-Aaron-Mundi I was a Teenage Jedi
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 9:52 AM
This is a great example of why a story set A Long Time Ago In A Galaxy Far, Far Away can still have so much meaning and substance--because it's based so much in the world we know. Art that imitates life and life that imitates art--really what we're left with is an art that portrays reality in its most basic terms, in the themes that not only reoccur in stories but in reality.
The connection between Columbine and Anakin's storming the Temple is a powerful one, and I hope no one dismisses it as trivializing Columbine. The beautiful thing about great storytelling is that it adds more meaning, not less, to real life events.
Great blog.
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Jade Sabre777 A luminous being, I am...
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 10:06 AM
After viewing the surveillance footage of the Columbine killers, I couldn't shake the image of Anakin Skywalker marching up the Jedi Temple steps. His look of determination... the merciless slaughter of children... all within a house of learning.
Wow . . . . Stooge, I'm speechless.
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darthgrievious93 Hey, Ho, Let's Go!
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 10:27 AM
That's one hell of a limerick.
But, you really bring up a good point.
What do you view as the troopers? The mindless kids desperate for attention so they take command from the popular kids thinking that they are just friends.
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ewanandhaydenfan5 I Have You Now!
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 10:55 AM
Some of the reasons for those horrendous school killings were mental illness. In the Virginia Tech shootings, I don't think the killer's mental health issues were handled properly. In the case of Columbine, where were the parents of the killers?? I know parents can't keep watch on their kids ALL the time, but come on! Parents need to be in touch with their kids' mental state and daily life.
Great comparisons with American Graffiti!
The connection between Columbine and Anakin's storming the Temple is a powerful one / Stooge you should write more blogs like this!!
I agree!
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Sarlacc-Pitt Slowly Digested Over A Thousand Blogs
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 11:18 AM
But... high school students?
They were young, spoiled rich kids who received little parenting that was strict. They were also mentally ill, and easily manipulated... by evil. A bad combination, which "perfectly" came together at the right time and place. Most unfortunate, but I hate to say that I'm not surprised it happened at all.
Our society has an obsession with death and tragedy; it's become and American pasttime. These kids wanted to be famous... notorious... and got what they wanted.
Loved all your comparisons, Stooge! Simply chilling.
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usetheforce19 MasterMonkey13
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 11:34 AM
Wow..........that was the deepest blog I've ever read. I don't really have much to say because at the time of the shooting I was only 7-years-old.
The scene became less tragic and far more chilling, not just because it's suddenly relatable, but because Star Wars has a way of painting things in stark black and white. George Lucas conceived the Force, in his words, "based on the premise that there is a God and there is good and evil."
The deeper and deeper we dive into Star Wars the more we see that all the little details of the story weren't made by accident. The story isn't simply to entertain, although it does this brilliantly, it's to teach.
Simply chilling blog.
MTFBWY. God bless.
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zach starwalker
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 11:49 AM
The Sith? Unfortunately, we know them, too: misfit kids who stay in the shadows, seething with unseen anger... planning, plotting, and preparing for revenge.
It's about time someone drew the same conclusion I did without me interfering. I was one of those kids. Still am in a way. But somehow in the last few years I have become one of the smartest and biggest kids in the school. People cower in fear of me when I get angry. Plus most of the people who ever try anything are about 5 feet tall. I'm around 6'1" so you do the proverbial math.
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zach starwalker
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 11:50 AM
Columbine NEVER should have happened.
It had to happen. Not just because of destiny if that is what you believe but because without it this world would be filled with fools. Thinking that everything is perfect with everyone. Thinking there are no problems. No pessimism and only optimism. Some of you may have found that very cruel. It is and was meant to be. If you dont understand or think it is just stupid go read A Brave New World.
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 12:19 PM
it's not possible, IMO, to stop all seemingly senseless acts of violence.
I agree -- it'd be silly to think otherwise. One of the smart things about Bowling for Columbine is that it doesn't go for the easy answer, i.e. guns = bad. (Well, it sorta does at the end, but I think they just didn't know how to end it.)
I know a child, who is now 13, who is one of those just plain "bad" kids. She grew up in the same environment with her sister, but her sister is sweet and caring and she is dark and troubled
Maybe it's just some middle-child syndrome? 
I do know what you're talking about, though. Kids like that never really scared me before, but now they've got the whole country concerned...
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 12:20 PM
Why the sudden departure from tradition?
My mind goes crazy and I do something like this every hundred entries or so.
Now I need to go watch American Graffiti sometime.
Totally -- it's an absolutely perfect movie.
And mine - go figure.
Aha! That answers everything!
But truth is, that kinda illustrates the point. Were the Columbine killers really part of some greater evil by attaching themselves to Hitler... or was it just as random as it being your birthday?
BTW -- happy belated!
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 12:21 PM
school violence (and the nurturing of 'violence as cool' by MTV et al) is forefront in my mind these days.
I was actually considering mentioning it (and other recent news like this), but I figured it might be a bit crass and exploitive. Not that that's every stopped me before, but still.
Now, you just gave me homework for the weekend
I'm hardly a teacher!
Columbine NEVER should have happened.
That's one thing we all can agree on.
Stooge you should write more blogs like this!!
But they're so tough! How do you people do it all the time?
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 12:22 PM
I was a youth leader at church when Columbine happened and I was thinking what I would do if that situation happened to one of the schools that I worked with.
At the time, I actually remember not being very phased by it... I was a few years out of high school, and I think I had that college-aged superiority complex of "it can never happen to me." Now, as I get older, it gets scarier and scarier.
I've never been a fan on Moore's movies, but I need to see Bowling for Columbine sometime.
It's certainly one of his better movies -- less agenda-driven than his recent stuff, though not quite as perfect as Roger & Me, which is still his best work.
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 12:23 PM
really what we're left with is an art that portrays reality in its most basic terms, in the themes that not only reoccur in stories but in reality.
And I often have to wonder how much of it GL was conscious of, and how much I see that simply wasn't intended. But you're right, the basic themes he tapped into were classic -- maybe that's why they continue to resonate.
The beautiful thing about great storytelling is that it adds more meaning, not less, to real life events.
That's a good argument... I suppose it's true. That's one of the great things about the PT -- on a philosophical level, it's certainly more ambiguous (and ambitious) than the broad strokes used in the OT.
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 12:24 PM
Stooge, I'm speechless.
I should be more speechless sometimes...
That's one hell of a limerick.
Ha!
What do you view as the troopers? The mindless kids desperate for attention so they take command from the popular kids thinking that they are just friends.
I like that a lot -- every society has thugs, and I suppose high school is no exception.
Some of the reasons for those horrendous school killings were mental illness.
I'm pretty sure I mentioned that somewhere...
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 12:26 PM
where were the parents of the killers?? I know parents can't keep watch on their kids ALL the time, but come on! Parents need to be in touch with their kids' mental state and daily life.
Possibly the scariest moment of Bowling was a 911 call from one of the killer's fathers, placed moments after the news leaked. He wasn't concerned about his own family --instead, he immediately suspected that his son was involved... but it was too late.
These kids wanted to be famous... notorious... and got what they wanted.
Excellent point. We're breeding a culture of folks obsessed with getting their Fifteen Minutes... but then the question becomes, is violence just the easiest path?
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 12:26 PM
Wow..........that was the deepest blog I've ever read.
Thanks.  But allow me to introduce you to Mr. Kenobi-fan...
The deeper and deeper we dive into Star Wars the more we see that all the little details of the story weren't made by accident.
Totally. I absolutely love dissecting the ideas behind Star Wars, even if they're possibly just bogus theories made up in our brains.
I was one of those kids. Still am in a way.
Yeah, but -- correct me if I'm wrong -- you seem to have healthy outlets and hobbies. The vast majority of kids, even the dark ones, probably do.
People cower in fear of me when I get angry.
But we know you're harmless, right?
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NecRomance
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 1:19 PM
My thoughts on these matters are too lengthy in words. Let me just say that I love your blog -- even when not joking, your blogs are more fascinating than most. This one was exceptional and I like how you tied things in with Star Wars and American Graffiti. My compliments.
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gold5 I lost Tiree, lost Dutch!..or How I learned to stop worrying and love the Death Star.
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 2:33 PM
I try not to see things in the terms of good and evil but it is easy to fall back on those definitions when we see this sort of things. This is a very complex issue. The reasons vary ( I have theories but I won't waste space here with) and have a root in so many things that there is no one cure all diagnosis. There may not be any real answers to solving the problem. I do think it may get worse before it changes. The problems run so deep. There is so much pain within us. One of our greatest gifts, that we feel so deeply what is around us, is also the root our greatest curses.
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gold5 I lost Tiree, lost Dutch!..or How I learned to stop worrying and love the Death Star.
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 2:33 PM
Whenever I hear about crimes I try to think could I be capable of that. It is even more frightening to think that anybody could given the right blend of circumstances. That part of ourselves is easier to take over than anyone would like to admit.
Being bullied horribly, belittled and alienated by other kids & adults for most of my childhood and also having some problems with depression because of it, could have turned me down the wrong path but I didn't. Was it how my parents raised me, or something that is different in me genetically, or my spirituality, or something else? Why did I instead become a relative pascifist?
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zach starwalker
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 6:39 PM
People cower in fear of me when I get angry.
But we know you're harmless, right?
Well there was this one time a kid came and knocked my books on the floor and pushed me really hard. He found that necks are a wonderful place to choke people and lockers help hold people up. (Just kidding)
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 7:31 PM
My thoughts on these matters are too lengthy in words.
I saw that you put 'em into words elsewhere -- quite flattering, I gotta say. I'll respond to that soon... I'm way behind!
Being bullied horribly, belittled and alienated by other kids & adults for most of my childhood and also having some problems with depression because of it, could have turned me down the wrong path but I didn't.
I honestly don't know anyone who hasn't been on the receiving end of mockery -- and most turn out okay. You're right, it's very complex with too many variables... yeesh, my brain hurts.
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 7:31 PM
Be our "brother's/sister's" keeper and make sure no one is forgotten, left behind or stepped on.
Amen. Sometimes the golden rule is just that.
(Just kidding)
Phew!
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Corterville Yoda's House of Pancakes
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 8:37 PM
Here's my theory on Columbine-type incidents: These types of things have been happening since humans set foot on the Earth. The only difference now is they get more media coverage.
There have always been emotionally unstable people in the world. I don't think it matters how well you were educated, and loved, if there's something wrong upstairs you're more apt to murder a handful of innocents. You can blame video games, violent movies, bad parenting and Marilyn Manson all you want, but the reality is these kids were crazy and this is what crazy people do best. Instead of placing blame, people need to be taught to notice the warning signs and take steps to prevent this from happening again.
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Corterville Yoda's House of Pancakes
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 8:37 PM
It also amazes me how people think of children as innocent little things. Think back to your days in grade school and high school; Children are like hungry carnivores, just waiting to pounce on the first sign of weakness.
Well, maybe I'm a bit too negative-that's just how I see things 
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Corterville Yoda's House of Pancakes
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 8:47 PM
And by weakness, I mean more than just the bully beating up the frail kids. The rich kids make sure to humiliate the poor ones and teach them their "place". The fat kid gets made fun of by the skinny kids. The smart kid gets ostracized, and so forth and so on. Even as young as five, power structures are formed, and some will stop at nothing to get to the top.
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Jedi Temple Acolyte Idealistic Crusade
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date Posted: May 02, 2008 9:27 PM
I have to admit that a part of me does simply want to think them evil, frontal lobe-underdeveloped though they may have been. My thoughts wander to Gandalf's words, though: "But that is not for us to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us." Only God knows these people's hearts. Our task is to strengthen the foundation of society, the family. It's the predictable argument, I know. But I believe it to be true. This is an amazing entry, my friend. Please do write more.
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Yodafett117
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 3:15 AM
My mind goes crazy and I do something like this every hundred entries or so.
Make it every 50 or even 25, and you'll turn into one of those bloggers who turn into authors, only people will actually want to read what you write.
I'm not sure about this, but I don't think there is any school which has had multiple violent incidents, so I think this quote fits:
"The reason lightning doesn't strike twice in the same place is that the same place isn't there the second time."
- Willie Tyler
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Darth_Hiram A Journey into The Force
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 4:19 AM
Very well written entry Stooge. Columbine is a tragedy that will always strike a chord with people. Any senseless violence would, and that it's a tragedy that just should not happen ... at any age.
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germanspeakingjedi 235
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 7:06 AM
Dude, your right. I'm a sophmore in high school and it IS a soap opera. With all the homework and stuff, it's INSANE! Sometimes I get made fun of for the stuff I like.
And Padme's the overachieving class president I guess that would be me, but I;m noot class president. I've never seen either movie, but Columbine and VT ,I wish, were never thought of
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DJ Maul: Got Feet? DJ Maul's Dancin' Cantina Party
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 8:38 AM
thought provoking stuff my friend.
Violence in any form is never easy to explain or justify...there ARE no easy answers when it comes to this.
it doesnt mean we should stop ASKING though.
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jediprincess77 I Know...
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 10:17 PM
This is one blog that is definitely not a joke! I got chills down my spine reading it...
It's hard for me to comment, as I am still learning the things I am and am not capable of. I'm grateful for a family who helped me understand the impact my actions have on others (basically, that life is not my movie starring me) and for my (basically  ) healthy mind. If I didn't have those things, do I really know who I would be?
it doesnt mean we should stop ASKING though.
I agree. We have to talk about this stuff if we want to learn & move forward...
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 11:51 PM
These types of things have been happening since humans set foot on the Earth. The only difference now is they get more media coverage.
Sadly, you're probably right... which makes the media somewhat complicit in the violence. I remember last year when the VT killer's manifesto made its way onto NBC -- until the network stopped airing the material in a matter of hours, because they realized it was exactly what the guy wanted... and could inspire copycats.
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 11:52 PM
Instead of placing blame, people need to be taught to notice the warning signs and take steps to prevent this from happening again.
That's the other side of the issue, though -- was NBC really wrong? If we don't publicize what this guy was all about, how will the public become educated about it? My mother, a therapist for thirty years, thought we should be talking about this guy, because it's the best possible way to help people understand, and teach them what to look out for.
It's a tricky cycle.
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 11:53 PM
My thoughts wander to Gandalf's words, though: "But that is not for us to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us."
Love that quote. And very true -- we can plan all we want, but the only ones any of us have any real control over is ourselves.
Stooge, sorry for the tripple posting
Thanks for reminding me! I deleted two of 'em.
Make it every 50 or even 25
Thanks, but yeesh, I doubt I could do that even if I wasn't lazy!
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 11:54 PM
I don't think there is any school which has had multiple violent incidents
Good question... the Columbine-inspired copycat killers never seem to be close to home. Maybe that's because, in places where tragedy strikes, the kids become much more educated about it. It's a good argument for what I was discussing with Corterville (above).
Columbine is a tragedy that will always strike a chord with people.
It's true -- there have been other school shootings since then, but Columbine still packs the biggest whallop. Let's hope it's never knocked off that perch, I suppose.
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The Stooge Star Wars Joke-A-Day (gone fishin')
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date Posted: May 03, 2008 11:54 PM
it doesnt mean we should stop ASKING though.
Amen. And thanks for saying so... I was a bit worried about doing a whole blog just based on a question.
If I didn't have those things, do I really know who I would be?
Yeah, we are certainly a product of our upbringing and circumstances (wonder if that word will get censored...), but I can't help but wonder how much nature plays a role, too. There had to have been something in the way the kids were wired which made them turn into killers... right? I mean, the entire PT was about how Anakin's good qualities directly led into his bad qualities.
I think I done went and confused myself.
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zach starwalker
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date Posted: May 04, 2008 11:17 AM
And Padme's the overachieving class president I guess that would be me, but I;m noot class president.
Whatever you do dont run. It sucks. I was VP(acting president) for about 3 months while the President was out for some reason. Now unfortunately I'm VP of our science club and next year president. Inherited elected positions suck.
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Jedi Master Mina Jedi blogging, go back to your drinks!
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date Posted: May 05, 2008 3:57 PM
Evil works in mysterious ways and preys on the weak minded. Sad, but true.
And as it concerns our teens and violence? We, as a society, put too much pressure on our younger generation. Be more faster, smarter, successful...more, more, more plus let's throw in the added pressure of the peers. It's a perfect combination to twist the mind of our young until they become evil...Like Anakin did.
WOW, did that just come out of me?  You know I don't like getting serious, my Court Jester...I'm going to go find me some chocolate now.
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JediMelindaWolf Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try.
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date Posted: May 06, 2008 6:24 AM
I'm so far behind, Stooge, and I'm not sure I'll ever catch up . . . but I'm working in that direction.
What an incredible blog you've written!
As the parent of children who have been on the receiving end of mean behavior through no fault of their own (and I am not saying this because I am their mother; it is true) - but because they are different - it breaks my heart, especially, to hear about child-on-child cruelty. I don't know why some people have to be so mean that they resort to bullying, or in the case of Columbine, to deadly violence.
(cont. . .)
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JediMelindaWolf Try not. Do. Or do not. There is no try.
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date Posted: May 06, 2008 6:33 AM
(cont. . .)
Basically, I think it all has to do with self-esteem issues, and what kind of forces come into play (at home and at school) that either build up or tear down one's self-esteem. Then there's the whole 'control' issue - and we know teens oftentimes have little control in that regard (This is not a dig at our younger blogging buddies. We've all been there at one time or another.) - that comes into play. Most are able to control their emotions, at least to some extent, by reasoning out an issue. Some, sadly, are not.
(cont. . .)
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